Dave and I started dating the night before Thanksgiving. If we’re being honest here it wasn’t so much as ‘dating’ {how he felt} as hooking up {how I felt}, but I digress. This isn’t about us, it’s about food. So, the first time he took me home to meet his family was a month later on Christmas.
Yeah… no pressure there.
I described it to my friends thusly, Norman Rockwell.
Not kidding.
Oma sets the table with her china, everything looks like something out of a painting, we have a family prayer, everyone makes polite conversation, and the food is just as delicious as you might imagine it would be.
My family is loud and obnoxious and we have things buffet style because it’s too damn hard to do it family style with twenty people, there is usually loud boisterous talk and if we are being honest, probably an f bomb or twelve. We also have had drag queens at dinner.
First impressions and all.
Here is the thing, I’ve asked Oma for lots of recipes over the last ten years. My favorites are all scribbled out on index cards, tucked away, because I think she still believes everyone has a recipe box. The best is when I was looking for a great mac n cheese recipe and I asked for hers. She looked at me with her twinkly smile, laughed, and said, “Here is my secret to great macaroni, don’t tell anyone. I just buy Stouffers.”
It was then that I knew she was my kindred cooking spirit. Mix things that are more complicated with simple, great dishes.
Corn casserole is one of my favorites. I love the corner piece the best. I like it so much that I’ve started making it at my family’s dinner too. It could not be easier to make either, three minutes tops.
